Jaisa ki ek kahaavat hai "jeevan gulaab ka bistar nahin hai". har din ek naya sangharsh hota hai, khaasakar tab jab aap ek bhaarateey grhinee ke roop mein hote hain, isakee dainik chunautiyon ka saamana karana aasaan nahin hota hai jo ki jeevan aapake oopar phenk deta hai. aapase jeevan ke sabhee charanon mein paripoorn hone kee ummeed kee jaatee hai, jo ek saamaany insaan kabhee bhee nahin kar sakata.
Bhaarateey samaaj mein apane sampoorn kaamakaaj mein har charan mein yahaan bahut saare sanshodhanon kee aavashyakata hotee hai, visheshakar jab yah baalikaon ke lie aata hai, chaahe vah unakee shaadee se pahale ho ya baad mein. kaee logon ne kaee cheejon mein yogadaan diya hai lekin kroorata aur kroorata ab bhaarateey sanskrti ka hissa ban gaee hai.
Aaj, yahaan tak ki ladakiyaan bhee shiksha, kala, sanskrti, phaishan ke kshetr mein aakaash kee uchch seema ko chhoo rahee hain ya kabhee bhee jis udyog mein unakee dilachaspee hai, lekin jaisa ki ve kahate hain, "mahilaen mahilaon kee sabase badee dushman hain". unhen kheenchane vaale log bhee mahilaen hain. vishesh roop se, jab yah sasuraal ke saath kathin paristhitiyon ka saamana karate hue shaadee ke baad hota hai.
Khud ko shikshit karane, jeevika ke uchit saadhanon kee khoj karane, apane sasuraal vaalon ko khush karane ke lie uchit shishtaachaar seekhane ke baad bhee itane saal bitaane ke baad bhee vah aisa karane mein viphal rahatee hai. jaisa ki duniya paakhandiyon se bharee hai, koee bhee vyakti apane siddhaanton par chalane vaale kisee vyakti ko shaayad hee khoj sakata hai. agar ve nahin jaanate ki raajaneeti kaise khelee jaatee hai, to ve maasoom ladakiyon ko mobail phon richaarj karate samay upayog kie jaane vaale richaarj kaard kee tarah kharonch denge. aur parinaamasvaroop, ya to unaka jeevan talaak mein samaapt ho jaata hai ya ve duniya ke baakee hisson se alag rahate hain.
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As there's a saying "Life is not a bed of roses". Everyday is a new struggle especially when u r an Indian housewife, its not easy to face the daily challenges that life throws at you. You are expected to be perfect at all the stages of life, which a normal human being can never be at all times.
There are a lots and lots of modifications needed here in the Indian society at its every stage in its overall functioning especially when it comes to the girl child whether it be before or after their marriage. Many people have contributed many things but the cruelty and brutality has become a part of the Indian culture now.
Today, even the girls are touching the sky high limits in the field of education, arts, culture, fashion or which ever industry they're interested in. But as they say, "Women are women's worst enemy". People who pull them down too are women. Particularly, when it is after marriage while facing the difficult situations with her in-laws.
Even after spending so many years in educating themselves, searching for the proper means of livelihood, learning the proper etiquettes to please her in-laws, she fails in doing so. As the world is full of hypocrites, one can hardly find any person who sticks on to his principles here. If they do not know how to play politics, they'll scratch the innocent girls like a recharge card used while recharging a mobile phone. And as a result, either their life ends up in divorce or they're kept aloof from rest of the world.
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